Giving is one of the kindest and nicest things a human can do for humanity. The gesture reflects nothing but empathy which all humans have for each other, innately. That the gesture must be made wisely, is a separate topic. Often, our intentions betray the action taken. When One Africa Women Forum donate money to charity, we are overwhelmed by the sense of giving. And in doing so, we ignore the first rule of giving charity: Your money must not fall into the wrong hands!